When conservative political pundit Ann Coulter has something to say, chances are she’s going to anger a lot of people. She used social media to tweet a very controversial post calling the President of the United States a “retard.”
She made the remark on Twitter after the third and final presidential debate between Obama and Mitt Romney. She tweeted:
I highly approve of Romney’s decision to be kind and gentle to the retard.
— Ann Coulter (@AnnCoulter) October 23, 2012
The comment appeared to be a response to critiques of Mitt Romney’s debate performance, but it wasn’t the only time Coulter used the “the r-word” during this election season. On Tuesday, she used the word “retarded” in another tweet in which she scolded Obama for poking fun at cancer with the phrase “Stage 3 Romnesia.“
While Coulter’s remarks were deemed“offensive and disrespectful“ by many, Special Olympics athlete John Franklin Stephens decided to reach out to the conservative pundit with some kind and thought-provoking words. He took to a Special Olympics blog to write an open letter to Coulter regarding her offensive tweet.
Dear Ann Coulter,
Come on Ms. Coulter, you aren’t dumb and you aren’t shallow. So why are you continually using a word like the R-word as an insult?
I’m a 30 year old man with Down syndrome who has struggled with the public’s perception that an intellectual disability means that I am dumb and shallow. I am not either of those things, but I do process information more slowly than the rest of you. In fact it has taken me all day to figure out how to respond to your use of the R-word last night.
I thought first of asking whether you meant to describe the President as someone who was bullied as a child by people like you, but rose above it to find a way to succeed in life as many of my fellow Special Olympians have.
Then I wondered if you meant to describe him as someone who has to struggle to be thoughtful about everything he says, as everyone else races from one snarkey sound bite to the next.
Finally, I wondered if you meant to degrade him as someone who is likely to receive bad health care, live in low grade housing with very little income and still manages to see life as a wonderful gift.
Because, Ms. Coulter, that is who we are – and much, much more.
After I saw your tweet, I realized you just wanted to belittle the President by linking him to people like me. You assumed that people would understand and accept that being linked to someone like me is an insult and you assumed you could get away with it and still appear on TV.
I have to wonder if you considered other hateful words but recoiled from the backlash.
Well, Ms. Coulter, you, and society, need to learn that being compared to people like me should be considered a badge of honor.
No one overcomes more than we do and still loves life so much.
Come join us someday at Special Olympics. See if you can walk away with your heart unchanged.
A friend you haven’t made yet,
John Franklin Stephens
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Special Olympics Virginia
Bravo to Mr. Stephens for standing up for all of those who are disabled. He used such beautiful words to respond and educate with love instead of returning hate for hate.


















